She sits in the third row. She’s been there since September.
She’s not disruptive. She hands in her work. When you call on her, she answers quietly and looks back down.
Of course, you noticed her at the beginning of the year. You tried to draw her in—gave her a part in the play, offered a warm comment here, a small responsibility there. It didn’t seem to take. She smiled politely and retreated back into herself.
And somewhere between November and February, without quite deciding to, you moved on. There were other students who simply demanded more. There was a curriculum to cover—Chumash, Megillah, then Haggadah. There was pressure to keep pace.
“I tried,” you’ve told yourself. And it’s true. You did.
The Alter of Slabodka once asked Rav Yisrael Salanter to define the mission of a mashgiach. The answer:
להחיות לב נדכאים, להחיות רוח שפלים — to revive the hearts of the dejected; to revive the spirits of the humble.
A vision of what one person, in the right moment, can do for another.
There are two months left. Is there something you can do that could still make a difference in her life?
Think about one student. You know that she has a whole world beyond your classroom. She may carry responsibilities at home, have talents you’ve never seen, or be navigating challenges that shape her every day. Maybe she has a flair for design, is creative, or has a quiet sense of humor. One is the oldest, another the youngest, another an only child.
When you understand even a small part of that world, your ability to build a student up changes.
- Knowing that Fraidy’s family is Hebrew-speaking, her teacher occasionally asks her to translate new Chumash words. In that moment, Fraidy becomes the expert.
- Another teacher, introducing the periodic table, drew in a quieter student by asking what elements might be in her earrings—connecting abstract content to something personal and visible.
- Miss Hirschberg saw that Shana struggled to sit still—but also that she loved dance. She gave her the role of creating and teaching motions for a math jingle.
Here’s a list of character traits or special circumstances that may be true about your student.
We can view the remaining weeks as wind-down time—finish the material, reach the finish line. But the end of the year offers something the beginning doesn’t: the relationship. You know your students now. The relationships are formed.
It doesn’t take a dramatic gesture. Click HERE for a list of little actions that mean the world to your students.
Students may not remember the last unit you taught. But they remember who noticed them, who believed in them, and who made them feel that they mattered.
Most educators entered chinuch because of someone who did exactly that for them.
You are that person for someone in your classroom right now, and there is still time to make it happen.






















